In a collaborative divorce in Cook County, you work with your lawyer, your former spouse and their lawyer, and any other necessary professionals to reach an agreement that you are satisfied with. As you are working towards a common goal, this method is often much less contentious than a traditional divorce. Throughout the process, a diligent divorce attorney can help you make the decisions that are right for you so that you can leave your marriage feeling prepared for the future.
Collaborative divorce is essentially when both parties decide to get divorced, but to do it outside of the courtroom and intensive litigation. Typically, it involves each party having an attorney to conduct negotiations outside of court. However, if there is a breakdown in communication, the parties are going to have to start all over again with a new attorney.
In many cases, people will almost wait to file for divorce until they have reached the agreement, but decide to not go to court. When they do this, they are going to save themselves a large amount of money because they are not paying for attorneys to go to court. Another benefit of participating in a collaborative divorce is being able to have a more peaceful divorce, as both parties are working together towards a common goal. Whereas, in a traditional divorce, they may not be working together at all, which can make the process even more difficult.
The biggest requirement in a collaborative divorce is that the parties can reach an agreement. Both parties have to agree that they are ready to move forward with the divorce and be willing to participate in the collaborative process, meaning both parties have to agree to only use their attorneys outside of court. They have to agree that if the process was to fail, they cannot go to court with their attorneys.
The parties that may be involved in a collaborative divorce include attorneys and a divorce coach. The parties could also work with financial advisers and other professionals, depending on the specific issues involved. For example, if the parties have a large marital estate, they might need a financial adviser who can help find an equitable division. They may also need a parenting coach or coordinator to help determine the best situation for their children.
The role of an attorney in a collaborative divorce is ultimately to help advise the person of the possible outcomes so they can make the right decisions. However, as stated above, when a couple unsuccessfully attempts a collaborative divorce, the lawyer cannot continue to represent the individual in further divorce proceedings.
If you are considering a divorce, but are looking for a less contentious option than a traditional divorce, a collaborative divorce might be for you. When you divorce collaboratively, you can work with your former spouse towards an agreement that works for both of you. If you have further questions about collaborative divorce in Cook County, reach out to Reidy Law Office LLC.